108| SOULFUL WOMEN’S RETREAT

March 8th was International Women’s Day. It was also the day of the Soulful Women’s Retreat that I went to. I wasn’t able to record or capture much from the event. It was meant to get us to disconnect from the distractions that come with cell phones/smartphones. So we were asked to put them away and to silence them which I did. I did take it out from time just to snap the pictures I’m sharing with you.

When we all arrived we introduced ourselves and shared what made us want to be a part of the day. Mine was community. Looking to be a part of a Spiritual Community or to meet people. Turns out I wasn’t alone in that. Everyone was very welcoming and friendly. Turned out that we were all in the business of helping others. Many were social workers, therapists, and or work in the medical field like myself. Most of us wanting and feeling the need to get off that wheel of 9-5 and focus on healing work.

We started off with some journal prompts, picking affirmation cards and mindful coloring. The journal prompts were nice, I need to write them in my journal for future reference. And my affirmation card was perfect. I’ve been very conscious on the thoughts that I have, and the words that I use when I’m talking to myself or am in deep thought. Before coloring we all decided on what we were going to be letting go of that day. We picked colors to match that energy, and colored/drew whatever came to mind. We were encouraged to let out any sounds that needed to be released as well. That was interesting. The first picture below is mine. Everyone liked it lol. After we were given the option to take it with us to burn, or to leave them there and Andrea (the host) would burn them for us. We all opted for the second option.

After that we meditated. She used a technique that called for us to have our knees loose. She had us imagine that there were roots sprouting from the Earth wrapping itself around our legs. She later said that this was to keep us from falling over. I wondered how that could happen when in that moment I started swaying from side to side. I then felt myself sway in a circular motion. I’d never experienced that before and it was pretty cool! Ill definitely be using that technique again!

After the mediation we spoke about what we saw when she had us connect with our Guides. Mine came to me in energy form. It’s how I see Spirits. They look like light orbs. I’ve seen a golden one on an occasion in my bedroom, but all the others have been blue and I’ve seen them in different places of my home. Afterwards some of us had something to eat. Andrea had a spread of veggies and fruits either dips, chips, small sandwiches and more. We intentionally colored the mandalas during that time.

This was a picture that I took of some paintings in one of the bathrooms. The paintings are on a velvet canvas. Never seen that before.

This was brought up during the retreat. To celebrate every victory, no matter how big or small it is!

I loved this painting of this horse. I kept staring at it. I have always loved horses. Never really spent much time with any in this lifetime but it’s something that I’ve always felt.

At the end of the retreat, which lasted about five hours. Andrea gifted us each a rose.

I’m glad that I took the time to attend this retreat and will be on the look out for more of her classes/workshops. I also walked away with the confidence and felt inspired that I too can host my very own retreat in the near future!

Thank you for reading about my day. I hope you have a great week! Come back next Tuesday for an all new post!

Love, light, the shadow too—-Cin.

61| FOR THE TOUGH DAYS…

Hi! I hope you’re well! And if not, I hope you’re a little better after leaving this space. I’ve been alright. I am taking on life one day at a time y’all. It’s the best that I can do right now. However, I am mindful that I am laying the groundwork for all of my goals and all the good that is on its way. I am not letting the time pass even on those heavy days where I don’t even want to step outside.

Which leads me to today’s post… I just feel like it’s something that could help someone when they’re feeling overwhelmed or can’t stop their mind from being on go. Or for those moments when we question if the Creator has kept us on the Strong Warriors and Tribulations package for another year in a row? I know I’ve felt that way for a few years now. However I can’t act like it hasn’t led to much needed growth. So for that reason alone I am thankful for the great days and the not so great days.

Here are some things that I’ve been doing to help keep me grounded, centered and out of my head on those days.


Reading a book is on the top of this list. I’ve been reading a lot! Since I work from home I read during the downtime or in between calls. I also read throughout the day. If I catch myself overthinking or feeling tense. I will reach for my book and it really does help put me at ease by taking my mind off of things.

I tend to read more than one book at a time. I am currently reading four books. Does anyone else do this?

I finished the one at the bottom and now reading the one on top. It’s my main focus out of all of the books.

Another great book that I am reading is Untamed by Glennon Doyle.

The next one is practicing meditation! Prayer is how I communicate with The Creator and meditation is how I get my answers (also signs) I’ve been doing this for over a month now. I set time aside in the beginning of the day after A* heads to school and during my breaks at work. It really helps silence my mind long enough to obtain mental clarity and tap in.

I’ve been meditating and working with this Argonite crystal for a few days now and love it. It’s great at helping balance your inner emotions. Which helps with mental clarity. Side story: I was pulling Oracle cards earlier this evening (this was written on 1/25/24) and I had this crystal on the table while doing so. One of the cards says word for word “balancing your inner emotions.” And that was confirmation for me that I am meant to be working with it. I felt called to it when I first grabbed it “meditate and keep this crystal nearby.” So I did. I am glad that I did!

The three that I’ve been working with. Rose Quartz, Argonite and Lemurian Crystal.

I’ve gone back to the gym! I got really sick the last time that I went and it kind of made me not want to go back. I also felt intimidated because I really didn’t know much about the equipment and what to do. I decided to use Pinterest and made my own work out routines from different videos etc and went back. Yea, I still needed some help and a fellow gym member assisted which I really appreciated and we laughed about it together. And that was fine. Guess what? I got sick again! Not as severely. On the days that the gym is too full for my liking, I will do work out routines at home (I also have a Pinterest board for at home workouts) and chip away every day. Weight loss is not my goal, I hit and surpassed that target a long time ago. I am focused on toning and building muscle.

And last but definitely not least, journaling! Writing down my thoughts, ideas, visualizations, dreams and more. It’s one of my favorite outlets. It is not the first or the last time that I will be raving about how much I enjoy journaling. And how much it helps me.

Honorable mention goes to walking outside, coloring books, arts and crafts, exercise or moving the body, reaching out to a support person (professional or not) and sleep! Some times lll just go to bed early and start over the next day.

Feel free to add on to my short list. What are some things that you do to help ground/center or just to bring you back to yourself again on those tough days?

I’ll leave you with that ;) Thank you for your time!

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Love, light, the shadow too—-Cin.


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